they fatten us up

Is it possible that wives instinctively fat and their husbands up in order to make them less attractive to other women so that their security is embellished or improved or some of the fancy word I said or some other fancy word 

Other things include emasculating them so that they are not attractive making them depressed and various other things 

I really missed not being attractive to other women when I was married I really wasn't I was sold the lie that putting a ring on my finger would make me attractive to other women what weird thing to say in order to put somebody in order to hook somebody I said I bother to edit this because nobody fucking reads it fuck off