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When I was young I had a problem with getting up in the morning I was the slug about champion at my school three months in a row nowadays I get ticked off for getting up too early by my good lady girlfriend or wife depending on which one is applicable at the time so don't mislead me I don't have two running in parallel I'm talking about historically 

It seems to me that there is a thing called a sweet spot with females and I'm not talking about the clitoris or the g-spot laugh out loud I'm talking about the degree to which you achieve the goals that she sets you.. if you achieve them too much you're a pain in the ass if you don't do them enough then you're a wanker you have to reach the tiny little micro sliver of performance rating that's satisfies her because the whole world is run by women case in point if you vacuum of your own volition that's no good you need to do it when she asks you and when she asked you to do it of your own volition that is okay to do it of your own volition but you don't want to do it too much because then you're obsessive and you're making too much noise etc and you don't want to be hard working and vigorous cos that makes her the feminist demigoddess look less clever and better than u ..you want to be just enough but you also want to be shit enough so that she feels better than you it's very simple