no shame

This one possibly for my blog is that one cannot or should not or and should not expect to or seek to control or own the sexus of a woman ...all one can do is entertain her sufficiently to make her want to come back 

.. I object to the historic cultural norm of shaming a woman who looks around when she's bored and the culture that says once she's married she's completely owned and in the same way reciprocally as well I do not shame women I do not call them prostitutes or whores for dress sluttily that's just what they do but if she was with me I would resist that and were she to do it I would end a relationship.. because she is clearly advertising for replacement.. secondly I do not adhere to the stupid cultural thing that a man who looks around hot women and tries to get them into bed this toxic both of these aspects are completely mental and I think possibly engineered by those who wish to undertake blackmail by making sex so shameful anybody who is caught indulging in it can then be blackmailed out of civil society or civic duty or any status job this is a crazy theory obviously but maybe it's just that we are all mental because women love to impose the rules that mean that it's much more difficult for a man to get inside her knickers but at the same time she wants you wants to raise the bar all the time she does this by making it shameful and sinful to lust after women and then women also enjoy having a high bar because then they can be inventuve in the ways that they signal that they wish to have sex without losing their social acceptability